Ask Me How I Know

Recently, my life was dramatically changed. It took me coming to the brink of death to realize that something had to give. I lost my spark, my legs, and most of all, my joy—so Daddy, the source of my joy, had to intervene.

It left me with some powerful lessons that have changed my outlook on life.

This would greatly diminish my quality of life because I could not be present in any given moment. My body was there while my mind was elsewhere. There were great expectations, people to please, and tasks to complete. I had so many irons in the fire that I could not enjoy the fire.

Lesson 1: Recognize

It was important for me to see me how God sees me and not the way others do. Regardless of my given name, Daddy had a name He felt was fitting for me.

Lesson 2: The Walk Versus the Talk

Jesus was not fooled. He knew what was in Judas’ heart. So, I have to conclude that not all who talk the talk are walking the walk. Not all who walk with me are actually walking with me.

I need to pay attention to the clues that reveal the true heart of those around me.

Lesson 3: Betrayal Doesn’t Exempt Me

If Judas, a member of the twelve, could betray Jesus, then I am not exempt. So, when they betray, I pray—and I live to see another day.

These lessons didn’t come from theory. They came from survival and mercy. If you’re reading this while carrying too much, moving too fast, and trying to be everything for everyone— let this be your reminder: slow down, breathe, and choose God’s pace.